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2 September 2007
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Hung out to dry: a short story of international
relations and clothes pegs
Clothes pegs
have many uses beyond hanging your T-shirt on
the line. I have known for some time that they
are handy for re-sealing a bag of crisps; they
are ideal for attaching Christmas cards to a
length of string; they are also a useful tool
for holding a sheaf of papers together. Indeed,
the BBC have
an entire webpage dedicated to alternative
uses for the humble clothes peg.
But
Katharine and I have recently discovered that
they can be used as a catalyst for developing
international relations - and all because of a
shared need to hang something out to dry.
During a
recent holiday in Italy Katharine wanted to
rinse out a few T-shirts, so we went to the
local supermarket and bought a length of clothes
line and a pack of clothes pegs. I stretched the
line across one corner of our hotel balcony and
secured it at each end to form a perfectly
serviceable washing line. (OK, it wasn't a thing
of beauty but it did the job and, hey, I was
quite pleased with it.) The clothes line we
had bought for the princely sum of 3 Euros was
far longer than was needed, so I left the loose
end coiled up in a rather sad looking planter
that separated our balcony from that of the room
next door.
The next
morning we went onto the balcony to find that
the people in the room next door had taken the
coiled end of the clothes line, and stretched it
across the corner of their balcony so that they
too could hang out a few things. "Good use of
resources", I thought, and popped half a dozen
spare clothes pegs onto their half of the joint
washing line.
That evening
we were sat on the balcony when our neighbours,
a very charming Italian lady and gentleman, came
out, smiled broadly at us and presented us with
a bottle of wine: "for the clothes pegs". We
were somewhat astonished, but after we had
overcome our surprise managed to dredge up
enough Italian to say "thank you". The lady
spoke much better English that we did Italian,
so over the next week or so we managed to learn
a little more about each other. For that brief
time we became good friends, even though we were
very limited in what we could say to each other.
This friendship was one of the things that made
our holiday special.
International relations is a high powered,
difficult, and sometimes dangerous business. I
certainly don't mean to belittle the complex
problems that exist in the world, or the efforts
that are made by many men and women of goodwill
to solve them. But in microcosm, our experience
with our Italian friends shows that on occasion
the bonds of friendship can be forged despite real
challenges with communication. All it needs is a
little appreciation on both sides, a
determination to get along, and ideally
a few clothes pegs to start the whole thing off.
Blessings from all
of us at St. Andrew's Church in Taunton UK.
Adrian
Webmaster
NOTE: I am the webmaster of St. Andrew's
Church, not clergy or a reader. I write as 'a man in a pew'
so you should not assume that I necessarily know what I'm
talking about, or that what I say reflects the views of other people
in our church.
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