One of the most depressing aspects of Christmas for me is the television
adverts that announce that the shops will be open again on 26 December.
I think of the shop workers, who have struggled
through the frantic preparations of other people’s Christmas, and who
arrive at their own Christmas Day weary and unable to relax and enjoy
the festival because they have to be back at work the next day. I think
too of the shoppers, who will be tempted by the bargains of the sales
cynically manipulated by the superstores.
The
history of the modern Christmas is both long and complicated. However,
in the 12th century a revival of the celebration of the twelve days of
Christmas occurred. Part of the reason was that people had a greater
sense of celebrating the birth of Jesus than we do today. Perhaps too,
people had a greater sense of the time needed for a mother to get up and
get going after the birth of a baby. Doing this too quickly was seen as
just plain bad.
Giving And Receiving
The twelve days of Christmas, from Christmas Eve to 6 January provide us
with an opportunity to think of ourselves as those who assist Mary in
giving birth, considering how and why her newborn child is going to
change the world.
Christmas is a time for people to come together: a
time of giving and receiving. But such ‘giving’ and ‘receiving’ has the
potential to be so much more than tearing the wrappers off lovingly
prepared gifts.
It is
a time for giving time: a time for receiving, for listening. It is a
time to reflect on relationships, of dealing with regrets, of making new
resolve, of choosing to live more openly, more lovingly. It is a time
for looking ahead and seeing how the Christ child can inspire us to look
at the world differently: a time to see how we can make a difference,
however small, so that people everywhere can live more hopefully and
humanly.
The Mystery
Why not give yourself, and those whom you love, the gift of time, of
remembrance, of stopping, listening; of putting right wrongs; dreaming
dreams; seeking to live more freely?
Don’t
rush off to the sales on Boxing Day - most of what is on offer is not
really needed. Give time, take time, and let the mystery of the Christ
child, who comes to bring us grace and peace, take hold of your heart,
your home and your life.
Happy Christmas.
+Peter
Bath & Wells
The Palace, Wells, Somerset. BA5 2PD
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